Lesbian Dominatrix, London
Yes, I see women
You may have noticed that most websites advertising Mistresses and Dominatrices, ours included, are written as though the person reading is a man. That is mostly the market talking: the large majority of clients in this work are men, so that is who the copy ends up pointed at. What it does mean is that a woman who wants to kneel in front of another woman is left guessing whether she would even be welcome, so I would rather say it at the top of the page than bury it at the bottom.
I am a woman who identifies as queer, and I grew up identifying as a lesbian. I think that makes it fairly self-explanatory why I so enjoy having women, femmes and trans women looking up at me adoringly, or on their knees in front of me.
I would love more women, femmes and trans women to apply to serve me. These are the sessions I do not get nearly enough of and the ones I actively seek out, so there is a standing discount for women and trans women who want to deepen their submission, experience it for the first time, or who are simply curious about some part of this and would like to explore it with a professional.
You do not have to be submissive to want this
Plenty of people who come to me would not describe themselves as submissive at all. You might just want to find out:
- What it actually feels like to be tied, in Shibari or in any of the rest of it.
- What it is like to be given instruction, and to be taught a little protocol.
- Whether being told what to do turns you on rather more than you were expecting.
- Being spanked, and then brought to orgasm.
- Orgasm control, overstimulation, or a stretch on the Sybian.
- Something genuinely intense, done with a woman and with a professional, so that you feel safe enough to go and find out.
There are a great many reasons to see a Dominatrix and "I am submissive" is only one of them. Curiosity is enough, and for some people this is simply the safest room in which to answer the question.
You are not unusual for wanting this
Fantasies of submission are extremely common in women, and the research that measures it keeps finding the same thing: it is statistically very common indeed. How rarely it gets said out loud tells you nothing at all about how many people are thinking it.
Being dominated by a woman, as a woman, separates power from the gender script it usually arrives attached to, and for a great many queer and gender-expansive people that is precisely the appeal.
What I am like in a session
I'm well known for my sensual style of play, unfathomable teasing, and commitment to my pleasure being a sense of torment as well as reward for you.
If you have never done this before
You do not need experience, a vocabulary, or a worked-out list of what you want. All I need is roughly what has piqued your interest: the kind of kinky porn you have been watching, or what drew you to whatever you typed into Google to find the page you are reading now.
Once your deposit is paid you get my personal WhatsApp number, and we can text and send voice notes and get to know each other before the day. If it is your first time I will take you through all of it: how we make certain of consent, the safeguards, safe words, and how you would like those to work for you. You dictate a great deal of this. I impose very little beyond my own safety precautions and my style of working. I am not there to tell you how to submit, or to make you use a safe word that feels ridiculous to say out loud, or to insist on the traffic light system I happen to use myself. It is a conversation, and a collaboration.
Trans women / non-binary
You are welcome on exactly the same terms as everybody else here. Tell me your pronouns when you write, and I will use them.
Still deciding?
There is a fuller answer to whether a woman can see a Dominatrix, for anyone who wants it spelled out properly first.
Booking
If you are coming with a partner, the couples session is the page you want.
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