Dominatrix for couples, London
I am particularly fond of couples and female submissives. It is such an honour, and a great erotic and sexual pleasure to me, to facilitate a romantic couple experiencing domination and submission under me.
What a couples session is
It is me and the two of you, for the whole session. You come together, and every part of it is built around the pair of you.
Most couples who book one have never done anything like it before, and that is the ordinary case here, not the exception. The picture people arrive with is of a couple who already know exactly what they are doing, and honestly, that couple is the rare one.
What the dynamic looks like when you come as a couple
What if one of you is usually the Dominant, or you are not both submissive? Any of these work, and the choice is yours:
- The two of you submitting to me in unison. This might be a fantasy of yours, or something you have wanted to experience together, serving a Dominatrix as a pair. It is an incredibly horny experience for all of us.
- If one of you usually leads at home and wants to lead in session with me, as a co-host of sorts, then we dominate the submissive one of you between us.
- If the one who usually tops wants to experience switching, or the one who usually submits wants to try co-topping with me, that is a very different evening for both of you.
- If one of you wants to learn how to dominate the other, I can curate the session so that it is playtime and hands-on teaching at once, with me guiding while the two of you do the work.
None of these has to be the whole session, either. We can move through all of it in one booking: both of you under me, then one of you switching to join me against the other, then swapping again. It gets very fluid, and that is where a two or three hour booking really comes into its own.
You don't have to know which of these you want before you write to me. We work that out together.
Consent, when there are two of you
Once your deposit is paid we set up a group chat, and before the day I want a call with both of you on it. I need to hear both voices. That is not a formality: I need to know that the two of you are fully informed and that the enthusiasm is coming from both sides.
Which brings me to the one thing I will not do. Under no circumstances will I be part of a session that is a surprise for your partner. You can only book me with the two of you if your partner is an excited, willing, enthusiastically consenting party in their own right.
Whether sex is part of it
We are all consenting adults. If you are a romantic couple, I am not going to be remotely offended by sexual activity between the two of you.
I am not an escort. There is, though, eroticism and there are sexual elements to BDSM play, and in hiring a Dominatrix you are hiring someone who involves herself willingly in erotic and sensual play.
If you have questions about limits, or about what is and is not on the table, you have two options. Book the session and pay the deposit, after which we can have a properly open and explicit conversation over WhatsApp or on the phone. Or book me for a consultation call and talk all of it through before you book anything at all.
Queer, gay, bi and non-binary couples
You are welcome here on exactly the same footing as anybody else. I am a queer identifying woman and I love having women, femmes and trans women in play and in session with me. Just as any combination of dynamic is possible, I welcome any combination or configuration of couple.
Where the session happens
A private residence or a hotel suite, arranged for the date, and the address comes to you once the appointment is held. Wherever I take you, the entrance is discreet and privately accessible. That is chosen before anything is confirmed, every time.
Aftercare is held for both of you, together. You arrived together and you leave together, and the time afterwards belongs to the session.
If you want to read more first
Femdom for couples covers what the idea actually means, and what happens in a couples session walks through the appointment in order.